Tuesday, February 9, 2016

Overly Overwhelmed







Well I have been a terrible blogger... But I have a good reason!!
The location we were planing to have our wedding at sold. We were planing on getting married at J's parents house, one last big hoorah before they move 10 hours away. 

Well it sold for cash this last Sunday so the closing date is a month out from the date we picked for the wedding, no contingency plan was put into the contract either. "It was like sorry house sold, whats the plan now"

Iv been crying since Sunday night. I dont know what we are going to do, everywhere we like is booked and we don't want to push it back but its looking like that will happen. 

In the last 72 hours I have contacted over 30 locations. From houses on the beach to rent and have a backyard wedding as planned to places that will do the whole thing for me. I am overly stressed at this point, and so is my mother bless her. 

She has called and called to switch things around and try to find a date that works for us, to seeing if our caterers will be available and well I could cry even more but I have run out of tears. 

Once we re pick a date I know I will feel alot better but starting from scratch with a wedding less than three months away is hard needless to say. 

The original invites will come in today and I know the tears will flow once again. I am just ready to have something set and start being able to breath again. 

BUTTTT..... This is where I think its going to be (J wont commit to a date he keeps having me ask about other ones)




It is about a hour and forty-five minutes from us. Its not the beach, its not a church or someones backyard but it is going to make more one heck of a party.


We can invite more family and friends and don't have to say "No Kids" since they will have a bigger space to run wild in! 

It is still going to be so stressful, I need to break out my book of Lists from the Knot that I got for Christmas or my Birthday... one of those holidays. 

Iv got a never ending headache and everlasting exhaustion that no amount of coffee or tea will cure. 

These next 60 days might kill me but at the end it will all be worth it!

Wish us luck!!

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